Yeah, we looked at the Feeldoe, but went with the
Nexus instead. (Ours is a much cooler color though, red with black marbling). I like it because it fits in my Bend Over Beginner harness and it doubles quite well as a dildo for when I am masturbating (I use the bigger end for that). Sometimes the head is a little difficult for my SO, but he has gotten used to it... and it's definitely more realistic than the smooth-ended dildos that come with Bend Over Beginner.
Anyway, we highly encourage couples to try this out... it was one of the first "events" we ever posted about on TFP, way back in Feb 05.