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Originally Posted by Sharon
Maybe I should start another thread asking how I can help him find a woman like that, or help him find a way to find one...
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As a friend, it would be entirely appropriate for you to find a way to help him; he must have an issue of some sort, because a guy as good as you say he is should be able to find someone close enough to what he wants to at least date in an exploratory way. Maybe he has trouble with the whole dating thing; many do. Maybe he's so serious about each date that he never has fun.
What I might suggest is that you offer to be his reality check on the opposite sex. Maybe he needs to know more about women in social situations: what they like, what they don't like, why a woman he went out with might have reacted to him the way she did, how he can be himself. You can be his adviser and cheerleader, if he'll let you. If so, you'd be doing him a vast service.
No blind dates, though! :-)