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Originally Posted by newlyable
We talk about things and communicate, but sometimes things just seem so hard to fix, im stubborn he's stubborn. OK here's my story, my whole life I have never really been able to be a kid, i have been put through hell not only on my home front but from my peers, i'm a very angry person because of the way my life has been, i have been through and faced with things that noone my age should have been faced with, i dont know how to be a kid, and it drives me up the wall that my boyfriend is such a kid. I know it is wrong to get upset with him, when he wants to party, play video games, etc. but I can't help it I don't know how to let go like he does, I want to have fun and experience life but I'm afraid that if i do i will mess up, or simply just not know how. how do i fix this?
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Through professional counseling.
I completely, *completely* understand your point of view, I was forced to grow up waaaay too fast as well. I'm making up for it now in my 30's!
But I've been to counseling more than once in my life, and it's benefited me greatly in this area.
Take care of your problems now, otherwise they'll only get bigger, and perhaps make you miss out on opportunities you'd otherwise get to enjoy and make use of.