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Originally Posted by analog
I mean, what if your husband had randomly brought home a girl and said, "we're all 3 of us going to have sex now, because I think you'd like to see me with another girl"- without asking you first? Somehow I think that wouldn't sit so well.
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I think that's a large part of the issue. For those who aren't into group sex, it wouldn't be new, exciting, or lovely that the partner decided to explore. It would hurt the relationship. It's never good to assume, especially with the opposite sex.
To be honest, I'd be worried about the part where you decided to be sexual with a woman despite having no sexual inclinations towards women. But I'm not sure how common my feeling is, since I have a very unusual perspective on romantic relationships. Someday I'll make a post about that. :P
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Last edited by Toaster126; 03-29-2006 at 05:27 PM..
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