Originally Posted by stevo

I never said to manipulate someone and I'm not saying I know what is best for anyone. All I'm saying is that just because someone is in a relationship shouldn't bar you from an attempt. I'm talking boyfriends-girlfriend. IF they aren't married then technically they are still single.

How can someone know what is best for themselves if they are never presented with the option? I'll bet dollars to donuts that the couple in question will break up one day and by then MEAD may have missed out. She's not married to the guy so there is nothing sacred about their relationship. Alls fair in love and war.