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Buddy, I know exactly what you're feeling dude. I used to have a long distance relationship with a catholic. Fortunately, in my case she was understanding that I'm not much of a religion person.

Anyways, you're being force-fed dude. My reasoning is that relationships are suppose to be about understanding and you're finding yourself in a situation where a religious person is clashing with you and is not being very understanding in the fact that you choose not to follow religion.

Your post doesn't indicate that you had a discussion with her regarding this particular topic. It's important to have those kind of discussion and explore different ways of dealing with this. From a religion perspective, it may be important to her that you attend those mass with her and show her that you're interested in enchancing your relationship with her through spritiuality means. The fact that you turned down her offer to go to the masses with her once in awhile might tell her that you're not interested in enchaning the relationship using that means.

That's why you gotta talk to her, explain why you don't want to attend the mass with her. I know it, because I had to do the same in my situation.

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