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Originally Posted by mbchills
I know that once your game evolves you won't be hearing this anymore, and it shouldn't even matter if you do. But.. say you do hear the infamous LJBF, whats the most solid response? I've heard various opinions, some say just shrug it off like you don't care and she will come back. Others say that it could be bad timing so just say "yeah we already are friends" but act the same. What do you think?
This has happened to me recently, except it wasn't bad timing. I totally had this girl in the bag but I fucked up by letting her bitch shield get to me and I acted like an asshole, which she didn't like. So i got the LJBF. She said it was bad timing and for now we should be friends but she can't predict the future. My response was "i already have enough friends", but i'm second guessing. Maybe I should've said "yeah that's cool, i can't really see us being more then friends anyway" and been her friend while acting the same, minus getting her bitch shield get to me which i'm really disappointed in myself for.
Basically my question is: Whats the most solid response for a LJBF?
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"Let's Just Be Friends" = The worst thing a woman could ever tell a man.
I guess the most solid response a guy could give is "sure," and then proceed to cut off all contact with that woman---if she's guilty of having led him on for a long time giving him false hope.
If she tells you this right off the bat before you actually start developing genuine feelings for her then it's cool, but I'd still suggest you take some time away from her to get your interest focused on other women before you renew contact with her as a platonic friend.