I'm going to agree with the approach Zar took. Keeping in touch with this girl is fine, and I don't see anything wrong with trying to find out how she feels about her current relationship. That said, you still know she is in a relationship, so don't actively try to end it.
Don't listen to these nay sayers who think that you should totally back off from this girl because she is in a relationship. If she isn't married, she's fair game. Anyways, what if you two are perfect for each other and don't know it yet? I say keep doing whatever you're doing, but don't go in for the kill until you know that she has ended her relationship.
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