Originally Posted by maleficent

I know nothing of psychology, I just think I know everything...

the question you should be asking yourself... if this woman was unattached and available, would you still be interested in her? Would you even notice her? Is part of her appeal that she is involved?

I honestly wonder if it's not the hunt that you prefer rather than the actual prize. What makes this woman awesome? The fact that somoene else has already gotten her?

I know a lot of women and men as well, who are rather like dogs chasing cars... Chasing the car sounds like a great idea... and it's a helluva lot of fun for the dog - but what exactly is the dog going to do with the car when it catches it?