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Originally Posted by JinnKai
I'm not sure I see the moral issue that the previous posters do. If she's inherently so weak-minded that Man B can "sway her" and "steal her away," from Man A, then Man A owes Man B a thank you for showing him. I don't see anything wrong with talking to a "taken" lady as a single man. Unless you're forcing the issue, you're doing nothing more unscrupulous than talking to a single woman. I think (and I can somewhat relate to) those opposed to this are those shaky enough in their relationship to be insecure that she'd actually stay with them.
That's just me.. ?
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Which brings up a good point. If the girl is so great for you to go out with, what makes you think she will let go of a perfectly good relationship to be with you? Unless:
a) She isn't that great afterall.
b) You know for a
fact that she is currently in a bad relationship.
To determine if the case is b, you would have to get chummy with the boyfriend and observe the couples' relationship. If the relationship is worth anything you might walk away in envy if you haven't prepared yourself.
You can of course
assume that the case is b, but if you are wrong there are a number of things that can go wrong (off the top of my head):
1. You're stuck with a bitch.
2. The ex-b/f attempts to exact revenge (which may happen even if the case is b)
3. You might be too obtuse to recognize that she isn't worth it, and if she does leave you eventually for someone else, you end up hurting yourself.
4. You dump the bitch and she goes psycho ex-g/f on you.