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MEAD · 03-22-2006, 09:45 PM

Wow, the response has been overwhelmingly negative. I totally understand that. But the people with these complaints seem to be odler folk. I'm a young guy (20) going after a young girl (19) who may or may not be involved. It's dating, not marriage at this point of my life. To assume that everyone at my age is as commited as a married couple is foolish. People date to find that special person that they could be with for the rest of their lives. They don't date to settle on one person and block every other possible opportunity out. My intentoin was never to trick or pressure this girl into anything, but to merely be perhaps a better opportunity. I wasn't going to be sending her flowers or diamond earings. I was just going to be there, as myself, the best me I can be, no pressure. And I don't think so lowly of myself as to believe that I couldn't possibly be better than the guy she might currently be dating, or any guy any girl I might become interested in is currently dating for that matter. I'm sorry but I just won't be that insecure even if you do want to call it cocky. It just seems to me that pretty, smart, and funny girls don't stay single for long. Just because I wasn't there the second one becomes available doesn't mean I don't deserve one.

03-22-2006, 09:45 PM	#24 (permalink)
MEAD Insane Location: South Florida	Wow, the response has been overwhelmingly negative. I totally understand that. But the people with these complaints seem to be odler folk. I'm a young guy (20) going after a young girl (19) who may or may not be involved. It's dating, not marriage at this point of my life. To assume that everyone at my age is as commited as a married couple is foolish. People date to find that special person that they could be with for the rest of their lives. They don't date to settle on one person and block every other possible opportunity out. My intentoin was never to trick or pressure this girl into anything, but to merely be perhaps a better opportunity. I wasn't going to be sending her flowers or diamond earings. I was just going to be there, as myself, the best me I can be, no pressure. And I don't think so lowly of myself as to believe that I couldn't possibly be better than the guy she might currently be dating, or any guy any girl I might become interested in is currently dating for that matter. I'm sorry but I just won't be that insecure even if you do want to call it cocky. It just seems to me that pretty, smart, and funny girls don't stay single for long. Just because I wasn't there the second one becomes available doesn't mean I don't deserve one. __________________ Here are some phrases I'd like to be able to say, in all honesty, before I die. "That's it, send out the ninjas!" "So then I had to kill my way to the second floor." Last edited by MEAD; 03-22-2006 at 09:59 PM..