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Originally Posted by Suave
There is a distinct possibility that the hostile reactions to relationship "infiltrators" are due to the insecurities of those who loathe them. If you have complete faith in your relationship, for what reason would you be so negative to those who would offer themselves as an alternative?
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That sounds great on paper, but there is no such thing as complete security. If you value your relationship, you do consider what could harm that relationship and try to avoid it or actively protect your relationship. I love my wife and she loves me, and there is no doubt of that in my mind....but if Jude Law showed up naked in my bedroom in front of my wife and started reading her poetry, I would beat him without mercy. Does that mean that I am worried about my wife leaving me for Jude Law? Not really. While she might find him attractive, he is obviously a ponce in real life and would be unbearable to live with (just ask Sienna Miller). Despite my being certian that my wife will always be faithful, I would still hate Jude Law for trying to do something to do damage to my relationship with my wife.
There has to be honor among men (and women, for that matter). Attempting to undermine a relationship is dishhonorable.