There are so many issues here it is difficult to keep track. This guy is a therapists nightmare. His preconceptions about the relationship between a husband and wife crosses into a concentual D/S relationship. Dom Subs usually have their moments when they act out their fantasy, and most times there is a "code word" used to stop the situation. Though it appears the dominant is in control, psychologically the sub has all of the control. Once they say the word, the incident stops, period. The sub allows the dom to do what they want until the word is said.
This on the other hand is like surfdom/ slavery. This is just nuts. He didn't want a relationship, he wanted a human sex toy. She wasn't allowed to talk to him about anything which might upset him. Unbelievable. There are women who feel they cannot get out a situation like this. I know some have said there is always a way out, and yes that is true. However, it is not easy to see the way out looking from the inside. I am curious as to whether this contract was enforced for the nine years or their marriage.
On top of everything, he was arrested for child porn, nice guy. I hope his wife and kids get the help they will desperately need to deal with all of this.
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