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Originally Posted by Rinndalir
My wife has shelves and shelves of those books, the ones with the hunky ripped pirate on the cover holding the swooning woman with her heaving breasts bursting out of her corset. Make no mistake, it's porn. I have the 'normal' stuff on my computer. I don't care if she gets off on reading those novels and she doesn't care if I get off on watching movies because there's no sub for the real thing, only if it starts to take the place of the real thing should it ever be a problem.
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I agree w/ Rinndalir. Men are mostly visual creatures, whereas women are usually best satisfied when they can create the environment inside of their own minds. Either in words or visuals, it's all about fantasy and imagination. It's not that a person is considering cheating or finds his/her SO unattractive; it's a matter of fulfilling a desire of the mind that transcends into the flesh. Like Rinndalir said, it's only when this desire cannot be satiated and the porn becomes a consuming activity is it a real problem.