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There is room in any relationship for sexual attraction, on all scales. The key is honesty with each other as to where it fits into the friendship. I have a wonderful friendship with a woman I truly love, and though it has a good measure of sexual attraction , we have mutually decided this is not the basis for our relationship, but is instead just a damn cool part of it. I am sure there is frustration felt from us both because of the descision not to act on this attraction but, that is a part of most relationships between a man and a woman, regardless of what anyone tells themselves.
My point is quite simple, just because you CAN become sexually intimate, does not mean you Must do so. My advice is to relax and let things go where they will, as long as you are honest with each other in the first place.
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Holding onto anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned. - Buddha
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