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SirLance · 03-19-2006, 10:40 AM

OK, let's talk about what you want. You've talked a lot about not hurting her, which is admirable, but what do you want? Do you want to go on or not go on? You have to decide. Even if you can't you have to be honest with her. If you're honest and she wants to keep trying with the full knowledge that she may get hurt, I don't see how you're responsible.

But really, you have to decide what you want here. Maybe it's just me reading between the lines, but I get a sense that this is scaring you for some reason and you're trying to find a way to back off by saying you're not as attracted to her physically as you should be.

just my $.02.

03-19-2006, 10:40 AM	#21 (permalink)
SirLance Junkie Location: In the middle of the desert.	OK, let's talk about what you want. You've talked a lot about not hurting her, which is admirable, but what do you want? Do you want to go on or not go on? You have to decide. Even if you can't you have to be honest with her. If you're honest and she wants to keep trying with the full knowledge that she may get hurt, I don't see how you're responsible. But really, you have to decide what you want here. Maybe it's just me reading between the lines, but I get a sense that this is scaring you for some reason and you're trying to find a way to back off by saying you're not as attracted to her physically as you should be. just my $.02. __________________ DEMOCRACY is where your vote counts, FEUDALISM is where your count votes.