Straight up Asking for Sex?
So this girl and I have been hooking up (making out for, then blowjobs, then eventually sex) for about a year...we tried the relationship thing (in which during the 2 week period we said we love each other), but it didn't work out due to circumstances (i.e. college, not enough time to devote to each other, immaturity to some degree), so we're still hanging out/hooking up pretty consistently (1-3 times a week), but I'm still having problems just straight up asking her to come over just to hook up. Usually it's, "hey, do you want to come over to watch a movie?" in which we watch a movie then hook up. But due to our busy schedules, a whole movie at a time isn't feasible, so how do I transition it into asking straight up for a booty call? (And I've talked to her about it, and she said quote, "I don't mind being propositioned") It's just, for some reason, I have a stigma about just asking her to come over for sex, i.e. she might see it as me not respecting her, but though she has said before, "At this point I know I'm just not a peice of ass to you."
SO, blocktext out of the way, advice?
I'm thinking maybe, "Hey, would you like to come over for a quickie?" or something like, "I'm horny, can you take 30 min out of your night to come over?"
OOh, I just had an idea, we came up with the nickname for sex as "play monopoly" (or rather my roommate did), so I could ask her to, "come over to play monopoly." I might try that one, but other suggestions?
Last edited by CubanCigar; 03-18-2006 at 03:53 AM..
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