Oh Gilda!!! You've just cracked me up.
Who can't relate to that. God damn I do that, too easy going I guess. Normally I'll say what I don't want to do/go etc and let the other person decide .... unless I have my heart set on something. But god damn, I hate it when others do it to me. A self trait I hate! Thanks for putting a smile on my face!
'There's something I need to tell you ......... but we'll have to talk later'
I don't like being left dangling. The element of surprise in any context works better for me.