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savvypup · 03-17-2006, 05:00 PM

Ooooh Fat-Tony, what are you doing? She obviously wants this to continue and you just don't want to hurt her. Take it from someone who's been in her shoes - stop it now, you're not doing her any favours. It does hurt ... alot. No one likes rejection, but no ones like pitty more. Give yourselves time, salvage your obviously very close relationship and in a few months / year, you'll be able to look back on this, laugh and you'll be able to confide in each other more because of your intimacy. One of my closest friends now is an old bf (broke up because of 18 yr age gap) but we're so, so close & we talk about everything and I mean everything. I'd much rather the relationship we have now than hating him because he continued on and didn't want to hurt me.

sorry for the ramble.

03-17-2006, 05:00 PM	#19 (permalink)
savvypup Crazy Location: Want to run away? Follow the light	Ooooh Fat-Tony, what are you doing? She obviously wants this to continue and you just don't want to hurt her. Take it from someone who's been in her shoes - stop it now, you're not doing her any favours. It does hurt ... alot. No one likes rejection, but no ones like pitty more. Give yourselves time, salvage your obviously very close relationship and in a few months / year, you'll be able to look back on this, laugh and you'll be able to confide in each other more because of your intimacy. One of my closest friends now is an old bf (broke up because of 18 yr age gap) but we're so, so close & we talk about everything and I mean everything. I'd much rather the relationship we have now than hating him because he continued on and didn't want to hurt me. sorry for the ramble. __________________ ciao bella!