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I think realizing you have a problem is the first step to fixing it
ignore everyone here who bashes you, I think you're being honest and truthful with your feelings.
I don't think there's an easy answer to how you feel. I would say definitely try talking to your wife, try being active with her physically so that you both can lose some weight and even that might be enough to imrpove your sex life.
If you think divorce is still the answer, I would try a temporary seperation, take an extended vacation away from the house and just be by yourself for a bit to let your feelings sink in.
Clear out the distractions and what other people are saying and just focus on yourself. Think about what you really want, and what makes you happy, and then go for it.
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mm...sex is fun 
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