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Originally Posted by tecoyah
Grow a set of Balls man.....talk to her, explain what you feel, compromise where needed, and FIX THE DAMN PROBLEMS. Your entire post is a plea for someone to Kick you in the ass , and MAKE you act....consider yourself Kicked. You can dwell in the depression you both have created for each other, or you can at least "Try" to repair what you have before it falls apart completely.
Give it a year of serious effort....if after that time you see no progress, its time to consider the relationship might be failed, but if you never get off your ass and try you are selling both of you short.
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QFT (thats quoted for truth for those that don't know)
Ok so you REALLY want to have sex with other woman, here are your choices.
#1. Keep it inside like many men do, until finally old age purges those hormones from your system.
#2. Have an affair like many many men do, perhaps feel guilty and parinoid about it the rest of your life.
#3. Have sex with hookers which is like #2 only they don't follow you home.
#4. Explore alternative relationships with her, be it an open marriage or swinging, but be aware that means you have to deal with her having sex with other guys.
#5. Get a divorce (you are only 24 and no kids) and get back into the game.
Whatever the hell ya do, work it out BEFORE you have kids.