Sage

Getting married doesn't "fix" a damned thing. Getting married requires committment, understanding, and complete communication from both people in order for the marriage to work.

You want to not be married. She's unhappy, you're unhappy, where is the problem in getting a divorce? Talk to your wife- show her some respect by being a man and communicating with her. Don't just bottle it all in- if you care for her you'll tell her how you REALLY feel. She'll be fine without you, she made it the first what, twenty years of her life just fine, right? She'll survive. Meanwhile, if you stay married, your sanity and your penis will wither away into nothingness and you'll end up hating each other. Not a good way to spend the rest of your life, eh?

Step back from your situation for a moment- imagine if your best friend in the whole world was going through teh same thing... what would you tell him? Follow that advice. Go with what your gut tells you will be best for YOU. Get yourself straight and stop worrying about anyone else, they'll sort themselves out in their own time.

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