I think veruca's on to something with her post... though i'm not sure a lot of women intentionally dress for other owmen -- though unintentionally -- that might be the case.
Many of the women I know tend to be the harshest critics of other women... Men will rarely comment, negatively, when a woman is dressed provatively, or is wearing too much makeup -- or any of the bazillion other catty things that women say to other women...
It's been a long time since i was in high school - but that was brutal - not for the guys - but from the comments that girls would make... Though I'm not excusing some guys from it as well...
Girls seem to use catty comments about other girls to boost their own self esteem -- they tear soemoene else down to make them look good... Where as, some guys, need that "hot" chick on their arm to boost their own self esteem... If both genders stopped worrying about what other people thought... and only were concerned about what was inside themselves... I think we'd all be a bit happier
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