On exercise... I wouldn't give up on that. If she won't do it, could you perhaps try it unilaterally? Give her something to think about eh. Perhaps she'll eventually come on board if she sees you getting results (?)
I'm thinking that perhaps you could find a "low glamour coefficient" gym.
I'm not sure about your area - but I know that in AU, each gym has a different vibe. For example, there are new gyms (chicks, lycra, makeup, ipods, fashion,flesh), older gyms (tracksuits, less TVs), and weights oriented gyms with mainly guys. Generally I prefer the latter types.
For what it's worth though - when I go to the gym, I do weights while my partner does a class with the girls.
Hope this helps some..
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