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Originally Posted by ngdawg
Behavioral science is longer lasting and something you can learn that you will carry always-with no side effects.
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I was diagnosed with social anxiety, and could probably have this as well. I had to be told how to make eye contact and practice it with my therapist when I was 23. I really don't show any emotion. I don't have any body language and can't read other people's subtle expressions. I don't like being touched. And I played by myself a lot growing up. I've never been in a relationship. And I only use the telephone when I have no other choice.
I am pretty smart. I did graduate college and got a research job with the government. But, unless I deal with the same people for a few weeks, I have a hard time talking to them.
I am currently reading books on social and relationship topics. I can easily do astrophysics and low level computer hardware design and programming, but having a simple conversation with a new person is very hard for me. Practicing social skills with a therapist, friends, or around town in situations that are friendly and easy is a good way to adjust your behavior and improve your life.