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Originally Posted by Fob_Magi
2) I have low self esteem, I’m scared that if I left her I would be alone forever… she even used this against me once when I was unsure if I wanted to get married or leave. “Do you want to end up old and alone like your uncle? Nothing but your money and work to keep you company?” There are a couple key points I require of mate… basic fundamental ideology, that I am not likely to change ever. These requirements seriously destroy my ‘mate pool’.
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To be honest, holding something over your head like this is a very uncool thing to do to someone.
You've only been married a few years, you don't have kids, divorce won't hurt that badly. Have some talks with her before 2 years turns into 10 years, or 15 years, and you're utterly miserable but by then have kids in the deal. Don't do that. Fix it now, either by firming up your feelings, or letting the marriage come to an end. Go talk to her.