Who said anything about her going to the gym with you? If the random hotties you see around your hood or at the gym are too much to bear, then I would suggest it’s time to get out. You’re obviously being kept from doing the things you’ve dreamed of doing. Once you start working on yourself, you'll realize that denying yourself happiness makes the relationship cheap and flimsy for all involved.
Until you do something about the situation you’re in, it won’t get better. Tomorrow will not be better than today. So either start talking seriously about this with your wife, or just get out. If she has a fit and you can’t communicate with her, then that will be it. Let a lawyer help you come to an equitable closure on this relationship and go do what you want to do.
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I think the Apocalypse is happening all around us. We go on eating desserts and watching TV. I know I do. I wish we were more capable of sustained passion and sustained resistance. We should be screaming and what we do is gossip. -Lydia Millet
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