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Now let's not all jump on this girl's back like she is pure evil. We may be attriubting to her certain insecurities that may not really be so. We all have our own set definitions of infedilty, and much of that has to do with the culture we are in. We are mainly monogymous in America, but certainly some peoples (within or outside of the US) have no problem with polygyny. We might see that as awful, but there is no reason they are wrong, or right for that matter. The thing is that their measurement of infedelity has been created by either a certain upbringing (what they have been told/sold) or indosynchratic behavior. I'd say generally the idea sold to the western masses is that if a guy looks at porn while he's in a realtionship that it is bad, obviously not everyone believes that, but if you do not take the time or do not have enough experience to learn otherwise then it is simple to see how you would take this as truth just because it is what is common. This girl may not have deep rooted insecurities. It may more or less be that she holds a belief based on what she has been told/ sold and has not had a reason to change that belief till now.
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Here are some phrases I'd like to be able to say, in all honesty, before I die.
"That's it, send out the ninjas!"
"So then I had to kill my way to the second floor."
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