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Well this esplains the pill thing a bit more.
Fob, you need to explore your options. Make a hypothetical decision in your mind and follow it reasonably to it's end. Divorce? Well, you two seperate, she has problems with work, you deal with several years of iffy relationships, you could find someone new, you could be happy. You could not find anyone and end up being a happy bachelor. You could be a sad bachelor. On the other hand, you could stick with it and continue to try new things to reinvigorate your marriage. You could explore each other's interests further. You could both go on a diet and exercise program together. Learn music together. Write a novel together. Rediscover your common ground and use it as a foundation on which to rebuild your relationship.
Either way, I do suggest that you talk to a marriage/family therapist. The good people on TFP will help you as much as we can, but there are limits.
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