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You covered a lot in your post and there are many different questions there.
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What's coming across to me is that a lot of your concerns are centered around insecurity and fear of loss in your relationship. It's like pornography is the strawman you've set up over a deeper issue that you have with your SO. You should have a deep talk with him about porn, sex, and your relationship and bring your concerns out in the open where you can both figure out a solution, or even just an understanding of the problem.
Or I could be reading the whole situation wrong. *shrug* Either way, a good long talk is always productive.