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Old 03-09-2006, 02:58 PM   #18 (permalink)
shesus
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I think all guys look at it and the guys that say they don't...well, I would hate to accuse them of lying...but...

I found a secret stash of porn once. Not that he was trying to keep it secret, I was just in a depression and he wasn't sure how I would handle it. I found it..got off myself..and then got mad just to piss him off. But I really don't have a problem with it. I was raised around it and see nothing wrong with it.

I don't think that guys do it to compare their SO to. I think it's just sex and people, well most people, like sex. I don't watch porn much. I read erotica. I like to use my imagination more than watch it being played out for me. I like to put in my own characters, etc.

Anyway...you need to get rid of your insecurities. It's not a measure of how good or bad you are. You could have sex everyday and porn would probably still be around. Just bring it up in a non-accusatory way. Mention in general terms and ask why he watches it. Or not, I don't really think it's a big deal honestly.
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