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I must concure what the others have said. Men (and even some women) like to look at other people having sex. It turns them on.
My question is more why it bothers you (or anyone that it bothers for that matter). You react emotionally to it as if we are having an affair with the video. As if, our beating off to a video is paramount to having sex with some one else. Just because we are thinking about it. To me that seems unfair.
If you love the guy, then why does the fact that he likes porn change that? Is porn so bad, that it changes all the good things about him? Does it make you incapable of being happy with him? These are the questions better answered. Not why we do it... buy why do you hate it, and how does that effect your relationship.
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Every passing hour brings the Solar System forty-three thousand miles closer to Globular Cluster M13 in Hercules — and still there are some misfits who insist that there is no such thing as progress.
Kurt Vonnegut - Sirens of Titan
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