Like dogs howling in the middle of the night;
Like earthworms crawling across the sidewalk in the rain;
Like the ebb and flow of the Atlantic Tide;
Men like looking at women. Please read that again. It bears a second look.
Strip clubs, magazines, videos and the Internet.
Men will spend hard earned money to see a woman in a state of undress. It provides a rush of instinctual chemicals that makes us feel the best we can possibly feel.
Now if this is not okay with you, then it is not okay with you. Talk to him and discuss it. Men are not uncontrolable hormonal urges. We want to make our partner happy, and if porn does not make her happy, we try to accomodate that.
Please do not compare yourself with porn. That has led to unhealthy self-images, eating disorders and depression. We like looking at models, but we want to have sex with the person we are involved with. Those chemicals feel good.
Yes, the vast, vast majority of men look at porn. Your father, uncles and grandfather looked at it too. It is something that makes us men, and for you to be upset is understandable and off-base. We are not in a comparison here. We like looking at ALL women, in all sorts of stages of undress. We look at women as we walk down the street, as we shop for groceries, as we pay bills. We are constantly looking, and wondering what that woman looks like with her kit off. Does she look like that one porn model you saw last week, or more like that one-night-stand you had back in '99? I wonder...
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