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Originally Posted by leftyderek
I just don't get it. She actually did said 'how could I not care about my ex-boyfriend who gave me such a great time?' in one of her emails. I just thought- if she cares enough she wouldn't get together with someone within a month after breaking up with me-- and if she really had such a great time she won't break up with me anyway. She is still applying to my university and all that. I just don't get it.
What does she want?
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Breaking up doesn't mean she stops caring about you. She wants you to be happy, most likely. She wants to be sure you're ok, and not becoming self-destructive or losing focus on school. Let her care about you without imposing rules on it. You seem to think that caring about you means not being with other guys, and it just doesn't work that way. Cheer up, man. Work on finding someone else to share your time with.
