I think the friend in the OP had/has some issues he needs to address. It would seem as though he is 'running' from things within himself. Some people, use sex as an escape from themselves and it would seem that might perhaps be the case.
As far as sleeping around just for the fact of having lots of sex, that's not really my scene, but i understand that is what other people search for and enjoy. As long as someone is happy and comfortable with their decisions, it's not my place to feel one way or another about it.
As to your question: Is it nessasary to experience?
For some people. the answer is yes. For some people, it's no. it truly depends on what lessons that person wants, feels they would like to learn.
i'm at that place right now, where i know i need to let myself go a little bit and have some experiences. So, i think the answer for me... at least... is Yes, it is nessasary for me to experience some things at this time in my life.
I need to learn, i need to embrace some things i never have... to do that, i know i need to have some experiences.
sweetpea
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