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Jack1.0 · 03-05-2006, 08:32 AM

I believe that either extreme is potentially destructive. On one extreme you have a person who sleeps with anyone they can lay their hand on, while on the other extreme you have someone who has slept with only on person. As noted by Shesus, the first extreme quite possibly is behavior that is hiding an unfulfilled need in the person’s life. The second extreme can lead to problems later in a relationship as the inexperience partner begins to grow and may start to wonder if there is something out there that they “Missed.” Neither of these outcomes is for certain. Human beings are incredibly different from each other, and we all have different strengths.

The only thing that I can really say for certain is that long term relationships take a lot of work and that pain is part of that.

03-05-2006, 08:32 AM	#10 (permalink)
Jack1.0 Tilted	I believe that either extreme is potentially destructive. On one extreme you have a person who sleeps with anyone they can lay their hand on, while on the other extreme you have someone who has slept with only on person. As noted by Shesus, the first extreme quite possibly is behavior that is hiding an unfulfilled need in the person’s life. The second extreme can lead to problems later in a relationship as the inexperience partner begins to grow and may start to wonder if there is something out there that they “Missed.” Neither of these outcomes is for certain. Human beings are incredibly different from each other, and we all have different strengths. The only thing that I can really say for certain is that long term relationships take a lot of work and that pain is part of that. __________________ Jack1.0 ---------------------------------------------- I've learned to embrace my inner Geek. I haven't found anything else I'm good at.