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Originally Posted by JumpinJesus
Give it time. While physical attraction is typically the first thing to develop, sometimes it's the last thing. As you get to know her a bit more, you may find yourself growing more attracted to her. Try imagining her as a romantic interest and see what happens.
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I've thought about that, and still haven't come to any conclusions. I don't want to prolong this unnecessarily. I think it would probably be worse to let this carry on for a few months and then end up still breaking up with her. I'd really like to salvage a friendship back out of this...
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If this is not at all a possibility, then talk to her. Let her know that her friendship means a lot but that you aren't sure you want pursue anything further than that. If she asks why, you don't have to tell her it's because you're not physically attracted to her. You can come up with a reason that spares her feelings. Sometimes, honesty is not the best policy.
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I agree completely. I really don't want to have to say "Sorry, I'm just not into you the same way you're into me." And like you said, her friendship really does mean a lot and I'd really like to maintain it, or at least be in a position where it could carry on down the road.
Thanks
