fat-tony

Ok, about 2 months ago, I was at the bar with a friend of mine, and we ended up kissing for a while. We were both pretty drunk, but the next day decided that we'd date some more and see where things went.

So, here we are, two months later. We've gotten a lot closer, and I've found out a lot of things about her that I really like. Personality-wise, we're very compatible, intellectually we connect quite well. But, I'm just not that sexually attracted to her, and I don't really thing that that will change.

For one, how can you possibly tell someone that you care about that she just doesn't get you going? I would really like to maintain the friendship that we had before all of this happened, but I've got a pretty good feeling that that won't happen. That really saddens me.

To make matters worse, I think she's really quite interested in this relationship. I know that if I do break up with her, it's going to hurt her a lot. Obviously, since I care about her, I don't want to do anything to hurt her.

This really sucks. I'm sure that prolonging things will just make it worse in the end.

Does anyone have any suggestions or advice for me? (Other than to not ramble so much when posting; It's late and I'm trying to collect my thoughts)