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It's a non-issue for me. Before I ever read about people thinking it was degrading and realizing that a lot of women wouldn't do it, I had already done it and not thought twice about it. Same for swallowing. It all came naturally and I didn't think either was unpleasant or disgusting, they were just part of sex. And if it pleases the guy I'm with and I don't have a problem with it, then it's fine with me. I never thought it was degrading to me, in fact it felt good to be able to please my guy and it made me even hornier to do it because I knew it drove him crazy. He gets turned on, I get turned on, and vice versa.
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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