Yeah, that sounds about right... I think it's one of those things where he's just trying to straighten out after his bender. Not so much that the threesome thing was "bad", it's just that it wasn't really "good" either, and he's trying to be good. Ah well, I guess I can't sweat it too much. I can't imagine anyone else that we know being a decent fit for this sort of thing, so maybe I just need to chalk it up to a two-time event thing unless he changes his mind. I don't think we'd go looking for someone else specifically for this purpose, though.
Thanks for the tips.
Guess I just need to chill and see what happens.