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Rayne, that's not way far off from how our first 3 some happened. (though I'd categorize it more along the MFM lines then MMF, just because F was in the middle the whole time, lol) Our friend eventually got a girlfriend and now on occasion they both join us at times. The difficulty we've found no matter what combination we may be seeking, is that frankly, we'd rather be with friends that we know, and have known and can actually trust. We've found it to be a nice spice on occasion for our already active sex lives. We'd been married probably 6 years or so when we started that, and it's 13 now, so I'd say it's not hurt our relationship at all, but we're quite careful to be open and honest and upfront, and to NEVER pressure or to give in to pressure just to give in. Bryndian_Dhai is quite right, don't let it interrupt a friendship, and don't make it a focus... if it's going to happen, it'll happen. Society in it's Judeo-Christian setup has placed a number of mores that are rather against group sexual activities, and those are hard for some people to escape. Give him time, he may do just that.
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