03-01-2006, 10:03 PM
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from a TFP male member who wished me to post his response.
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I find your thread extremely interesting, and I totally understand why you would post it in the Ladies Lounge...however I do think it would be interesting to hear from male points of view... How do we see women without makeup? "Perfection", etc.
Personally, I can't believe that bosses make comments like that. It's kind of disgusting. Also, comments on weight, everything like that, I don't think I'd personnally give any.. (Except if a woman has been trying to lose a few pounds because of a weight complex, then of course I'd try and make her feel like she's looking good.) It seems a bit... intrusive, somehow..
I think a woman shows much of her beauty through her attitude, personally, and if I were a boss, seeing my employees in a good mood would probably trigger me to say nice things.
Sadly, I think there is something in us (both men and women) that believes in an "ideal" for women, and that the ones who don't represent it have to try and reach it. I love seeing a woman totally comfortable with herself, no matter how differebr she looks from that chick on the TV screen. ..it's so relaxing.
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