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gotta agree with HF 110%, and i'm speaking from VERY recent experience...
i have been seeing a girl now for about 2 months that i was really good friends with for a year before we "made it official" and started dating... i totally have a thing for her and jumped in with both feet telling her everything i was thinking and going through figuring she would see what an "open and honest" guy i was.
we're still dating, but things are kinda stressful because she knows how i think and feel and can pretty much work me as she pleases. she's been good in being considerate of this, but has basically said flat out that i have moved way too fast for her.
so i'm in the situation now of just hoping i didn't give her too much cause she could seriously rip my guts out with the information i have given her... (and i'm a pretty tight-lipped guy with my emotional stuff normally... she just did it to me!)....
keep some stuff to yourself and let her come looking for it...it's tough, but you gotta do it, believe me.
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