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Originally Posted by tecoyah
Okay....I read about one tenth of the CRAP in this thread....so I apologize in advance if this has been said before.
Women deserve respect, and for some little boy to decide deciet is the only means to sexual satisfaction is so very sad. When the Boys become Men, and understand that sex is a really cool byproduct of a healthy, respectful relationship....perhaps they will figure out how to make love, and give some level of pleasure back to the owner of the hole they so desire. For now...go ahead and dwell in your misguided feelings of superiority over the three minutes of vigor you likely manage to sustain. In time I hope you actually manage to grasp the usefullness of companionship, and perhaps even consider the feelings of someone other than yourself.
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Okay, tecoyah, I just read this post... and it's a good segue into explaining what exactly I use these "tactics" for, and what everybody else should be using them for. So without further ado:
As tecoyah said, companionship is ultimately the goal here, and, yes, women most certainly deserve respect. However, in order to enter any kind of romantic relationship, both partners must find each other attractive. Men are initially (I mean within the first 5 minutes of knowing the person) attracted to women almost soley based on how good they look. Women are also attracted to looks, but it also takes heaps of attractive personality and confidence. Think of it this way: a somewhat attractive woman stands in a mall, asking random men who walk by if they would like to go out to dinner with them. Ninety-five percent would say yes (this was an actual study, I don't want to dig it up right now, but it's been done). Now, if an attractive man were to ask random women out, it would be far less of an occurrence to say yes. These pointers are good way to make yourself attractive so that you can "experiment" with as many people as possible, and therefore increasing your chances of finding someone who is suitable for companionship. This isn't deceit, it is just pointing out some very general things that most women find attractive, and how to go about fitting some of those things. Women, mostly (at least around the age when men hit their sex drives), are just pickier than men about sex partners. I'm sorry, but that's just the way it is, and there IS scientific evidence to back that up. I would love nothing more than to have a steady relationship with a woman for the rest of my life, and I honestly try to go further into it than just a night of sex, but if it doesn't work, I can't make it. Again, I'm sorry, but that's the way it is.
Note to the guys: don't be a dick, follow a few simple rules, or I will find you and kick your ass:
1) Don't ever try to force a woman to have sex with you.
2) If you have to resort to make her drink to excess to get in her pants, you're sad. I will probably still kick your ass for trying it.
3) If you have sex with a woman, and she gives you a number, or she contacts you, don't try to avoid her. Give her a call, it might be worth it.
Note to the women reading this thread:
Please, oh please don't fall for the "badass" that treats you like shit. I see it everyday, and women do it to themselves all the time. I know it's the guy being abusive, but with most guys it just takes breaking up with them or calling a chivalrous guy like myself to come kick his ass.
That's all for tonight.