What with all the health things that have been going on with you in the past year hon, you should TOTALLY get yourself down to a doctor and be checked out. If your doctor tries to brush it off, go see another one! You said yourself that this is NOT NORMAL, the people around you who know you and love you see that this is not normal... what more prodding do you need???
No, it's not normal to be that moody. Perhaps while PMSing (you could have whatever disorder that is that is clinically recognized now- the one that they diagnose you as basically going insane while PMSing... PMDD I think it is) getting moody is one thing, but all the time? Definitely not normal!
Have a complete blood test- have them test to see if anything is out of whack. Also, I think they can do a pre-menopause test (it's not unusual for women to be pre menopausal at your age, especially with your tubes being tied). You remember how much better you started to feel when you got your whole thyroid thing checked out? (Go you for getting better, by the way!) Well, hon, you'll totally feel better once you get this checked out. Being super moody all the time is NOT the way to be!!
Oh, and onto the diet/suppliments/tea thing- don't try taking suppliments or changing your diet signifigantly until you get a consult with a doctor and/or a nutritionist. Taking suppliments when you don't know what (or even if) you're deficient in can throw everything even further off kilter and do damage to your organs.
Get thee to a doctor, woman!!
