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I couldn't imagine telling my SO that I could do better than him. I don't even know what would have to happen for me to say this. I think that if I did say this then I would be very unhappy and I would take action on that thought.
I also think that negative namecalling is a horrible thing to do in a relationship. Why would you do this to someone that you love?
I agree that loaded questions are bad. But everyone asks them. I know that I used to ask a lot of loaded questions. This was at the very beginning of the relationship when I felt insecure about where I stood and what he thought about me and us. I think that once the relationship becomes more mature and has open communication, the loaded questions diminish because of the relationship being more stable and better understood.
I can't think of anything unacceptable that is being said my relationship now. We know how to communicate with each other and do it well. We are not childish about our feelings and we think before we speak. I'm sure that I say some stupid things from time to time. Everyone makes faux pas from time to time in a conversation. However, respect, thoughtfulness, and self-confidence can diminish them from happening.
A lesson from childhood: If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all.
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