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Originally Posted by Astrocloud
I don't think it's excusable. I'm thinking about letting her do better.
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If you're calling her a bitch on such a regular basis that she's asked you to stop doing so... and she's thinking that perhaps she can do better than you... then well perhaps you should go with what you're thinking is... Calling someone a bitch is wrong... Settling for someone -- or letting them know that they are settling is also wrong...
In my book, there are two things that should not be said...
1. Loaded questions... or rather questions asked that you really and truly don't want a completely truthful answer to... If you don't want to know the truth - Don't ask the question... If you want your ego stroked... say so...
2. No saying anything at all - Fine as an answer drives me nuts, and I'm very guilty of it - it's been ages since a relationship - but in my everyday dealings - my mindset is you have to pick your battles - not all battles should and could be fought - Fine is a concession to the other person - I can say fine and let it go -- not all people can - some people will say fine and then harbor a grudge for a while...