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Originally Posted by Astrocloud
Last night she said something to me. I'm feeling like it's inexcusable. She told me that she could "do better than me". She went off for like 10 minutes on this subject. By "better" she explained -she meant that she could find someone who makes more money. I just sat there and took it all in.
During her apology she tried to say that this was her way of telling me that she loves me. After all -she must love me if she stays with me while she can do better.
I don't think it's excusable. I'm thinking about letting her do better.
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That's harsh. i've never said that to anyone... what your S.O. did is cruel in my opinion and does not show any signs of respect. What actions you choose to take due to this situation are your own, but that's not right how she treated you.
As the the things never to say to an S.O. (or a friend, or anyone i like/respect for that matter)
I'm very careful about the words i choose with people who are close to me. I do my best to always say things with respect and attention to their feelings... i find that this kind of perspective usually leads me to say even negative things that need to be addressed in a gentle way.
sweetpea