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Originally Posted by CSflim
Just curious: What is it that you found that you didn't expect in this thread?
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I was so busy taking the Domestic Violence perspective on this situation (well, i *do have a social work degree, so that is natural because of my training) That i failed to see how the contract part of this situation could easily be part of a happy and fulfilling relationship between a dom./sub. couple. It surprised me that i didn't at once see how this contract could be used for that purpose.. since i've always been personally interested in dom./sub. roleplay, but i've never been a part of a relationship like that, and do to my own experience limitations, i was blind to that perspective in this.
i guess it pointed out to me, how personal perspective and personal experiences truly affect one's social 'filter' of perception.
sweetpea