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Originally Posted by mbchills
It's just a more advanced form of social dynamics that works a lot better then "just being yourself"
and no body is personality deficient, but it IS a game. why? because it's fun, if you don't have fun you'll lose.
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I don't think you understand. You're using the techniques you've learned to replace real interaction- which is being yourself. Instead of gaining a skill to better express yourself, you're using them to distance yourself from emotional risk and connection.
You may or may not be personality deficient, I don't know you well enough to say either way. But I know from what you've posted that you will never be able to make a real, solid, stable relationship with another woman until you show your true self to them.